For many queer men, the element of fear and 'Who's this guy going to be?' is arousing. Not only are we talking to strangers, we're meeting them in a closed-off space to bone.īut that's what makes it so hot. We're doing the exact opposite of what our parents taught us while growing up. Many times, we have no idea what he actually looks like before we get there. After exchanging as few as 30 words and sending a picture of our junk, we go to a complete stranger's house to have sex. Gay and bi men have normalized an absolutely wild phenomenon.
